You're a Magnet for Assholes (And It's Not an Accident)

Here's the deal...

You got hurt. Built walls. Got sharp with your words.

Now you're wondering why everyone around you seems argumentative, pushy, and ready to fight?

Plot twist: You're looking in a mirror.

Those people who piss you off? They're doing exactly what you do when you feel threatened - they get sharp, they push back, they go for the kill shot.

The universe is basically holding up a giant mirror and saying, "Hey, this is you when you're in defense mode."

The Real Problem?

You're using anger as armor because what's underneath - the grief, the hurt, the fear of being dismissed again - feels too dangerous to touch.

Anger feels powerful. Vulnerability feels like death.

But Here's What's Actually Happening:

Every sharp word you send out comes back to you. Every judgment. Every moment of impatience.

You've made yourself judge and jury of everyone else's choices, then act shocked when they don't measure up to your impossible standards.

The Brutal Truth:

• You attract what you are, not what you want
• Staying angry is easier than being vulnerable
• Your "high standards" might just be harsh judgments in disguise
• Not everyone needs to think like you to be valid

Want Out of This Loop?

Stop waiting for everyone else to change first.

Try saying "I feel hurt" instead of "I'm angry" and watch what happens.

Use your sharp mind for connection instead of cutting people down.

Bottom Line:

The world isn't conspiring against you. It's just showing you exactly what you're putting out there.

Change the signal, change what you attract.

Simple? Yes.
Easy? Hell no.
Worth it? That's up to you.